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Everything in Life takes Time

Some times when things aren’t falling your way, despite when you haven’t left any stone unturned. Whenever I feel sad, I call my dad to share whatever is running in my mind. So yesterday, when I called my father, he said a very important thing about life and time. He said that the  crucial thing in life is time and the funny thing about time is, it is always moving .   You neither can go back to fix a mistake nor you can jump ahead of the stream to find when happiness is falling your way . He further added, son,  you can only go with the flow to reach where you are destined to be . But by flowing doesn’t mean that you literally flow with time, it means that you keep a righteous approach in all your efforts.  Sachin Tendulkar is called as God of Cricket , he can make a record of hitting the fastest century in a match but he can’t hit a hundred on the very first ball. Even the creator of this earth took time to create life and he takes time to write every fold of life. Fruit takes time
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Proven trick to STOP fighting in a relationship with ZERO Effort

Love is a base of every relationship. Though there are many other feelings which channelize love into a strong bond in any relationship. Still there would be some feelings like disagreement, unfairness, lies which crosses our way and shake our bonds. Each one of us must have passed through such alleys, where knowingly or unknowingly we became a part of a fight and later that changed into tidal bulges. Like everyone try to win in such situations which in result weakens the bond and hence causes either distance in the relation or completely breaking that relationship. I witnessed such fights in every relation and viz-a-viz have participated sometimes. But post every such incidents, my heart took me through the memory lanes to witness the discussions between my grandparents. From where I found a cheat code to such problems. Whenever during any conversation, my grandfather used to feel that this conversation might lead to any heated discussion then my grandfather used to say a statement “
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Never relish relations on your own pyre

Family  is one of those best words, which all of us love repeating and remembering all the time. The family is involved either directly or indirectly, with what an individual does in his/her life. If we go by the definition, a group of people affiliated either by birth, by marriage or co-residence is called as family. If this is the definition then why words like separations, differences even exists. If a son forces his dad every now and then to divide the property or a daughter in law doesn’t like that her husband maintain any relation with his family or if an elder brother betrays his younger brother or sister or if a son leaves his mother and doesn’t come to see her despite being in the same city. Should we still consider them as part of our family? I don’t think so and there is no need to relish the dead relations on the stake of your own pyre.  We all know that an individual can never be off debts from what parents has done to make him stand or earn in this brutal world. If famil
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Beauty is just a Noun like Handsome is

Recently, I got to know about a stringent behavior of males towards the female employee. The behavior was so unnatural and painful that left me with a question that ‘Is she safe’ in her team. We talk about rules, laws, and phrases like ‘Save the Girl Child’. But is this sufficient. I feel despite various rules, laws, and policies, the girls are still not safe. Be it a public place, a straight road or a private company. Another thought comes to my mind is, can beauty turns be a curse. When a girl gets promotion then why peers, seniors or juniors becomes so judgmental about the character of the girl. Why everyone opens up a discussion about her relationship, especially with her boss? Some or the other way her boss also starts giving different offers like let’s booze together. In no time the request of dropping at home changes to I will drop you. This seems like he is trying to ask for a payback and that too in kind. Has anyone even asked the girl that what she needs, whether sh
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Love and Strength

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There is a saying that “To realize the value of ONE HOUR, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet”. I want to add in this, “To realize the value of strength, ask a soul who has fallen weak because of losing perspective of life”. Losing tangible and important things in life, may not be a great loss. But losing perspective in life is living without a heartbeat, which is next to impossible. Unfortunately, I have lived a life when I was clueless because I had lost the perspective of life. I constantly kept on asking the God that why he has taken the life out of me and left me like a broken shell. When I was trying to keep myself busy in doing the regular activities, tasting the bitterness of life. One day God smiled at me and blessed me with a moment of joy. The almighty made me open the door for the second most beautiful soul, after my mother. The almighty didn’t stop there and kept on creating the beautiful memories of life. People say that there is no any name for the soul. I beg to
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Starts with same letter Rakhi and Rape, but different intentions

Yesterday, I was in Metro was enjoying the journey back to Noida. There were rakhis tied on every hand, seems everyone had enjoyed this auspicious festival that reflects the strength of the bond between brother & sister. I too enjoyed the festival of bonds with my sisters. While enjoying the ride, a question kept on banging my head and left me unanswered. If everyone has a sister/s, may be a real or cousin but still they have a relation and shares a strong bond of care, love, happiness, understanding, nemesis and best partners in crime. Then why there are increasing numbers of eve-teasing, Rapes, and female feticides. This question took me back to my childhood, the day when I visited my dog – Bruno. We had a dog but we sold him when he was 4 years. Actually, we had a kid at our home, which used to crawl on the floor and my grandfather suggested that’s not good if we keep the dog because dog and the child share the same playground i.e. floor. One day when I was missing Bruno,
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Ways to Succeed

Success! A word which is loved by everyone, because no one wants to lose at any given time & situation. There is no any such measuring unit which can evaluate the depth or compare anybody’s success. It is equally important and dear to every human being.  I believe that following are five factors which either can help in succeed or can give us speed on the way to succeed: Follow the Truth – In Shrimad Bhagavad Geeta, Lord Krishna has told Arjuna that the reason why I am at your side is because truth is at your side. And I believe it’s needless to say that when God is at your side then it’s impossible that you lose. So while on the path of fulfilling your dreams, it’s important or rather mandatory that you should hold the pillars of truth tightly. In the words of Albert Einstein “Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of values” . Positive Attitude – Success is not so easy to achieve. An achiever who has tasted the bitterness of failure b
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