Give no excuses in true friendship.....
A glorious averment by Lee Iacocca "My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, and then you've had a great life."
Somehow we all always come across an anxious kind of feeling and we keep on making excuse getting out of those situations. In this world of white collar people, two angelical words are loosing there identity FRIENDS AND FRIENDSHIP...Today we are making excuses in front of those also who are very near to our heart and soul.
This all is happening just because we are not assure of ourselves and we are scared of our friends even. How truly said - "The road to a friend's house is never long." But we are trying to make the road long because of our own mental blocks and negative thinking.
I may be sounding too philosophic in the above lines but this is very true.....and it's happening between good friends. in a group of good friends...I want to say why we are trying to palled it out....why we are not sure about our friends that whether they can stand with us under any circumstances or not.
Is this friendship a boundation or a "God's Gift". I think if you aver somebody as your friend then it means you have mutual understanding. And if you have Mutual Understanding then no need to give excuses ...... exculpations or self-justifications.
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There are only few friends who will be very near and dear, for me my parents are few of them. Every one cannot be up to our mark but, we can try to achieve their expectation level. Many times every one of us think about them selves but few of us think and care about others feelings and emotions.
acquaintances or ppl whom u get to know just casually. But there are very few who leave a lasting impressions
throughout ur life.friend will truly be there for u always.From firsthand experience and fortunately, having one
such friend in my life (u know who ;-))..i can say this abhay....a friend is someone you know and who knows u
inside out, you can share evrything under the sun with them, they get the best out of you and make you understand
and overcome ur flaws and shortcomings...they make u a better person...there are no egos, no selfishness.Theres a
special and a strong bond/closeness that just grows with time, facing the tests of time.Saying a simple heartfelt "sorry" and/or "thanks" when necessary just brings ur friend close to you. And its always good to be open to communication and to listen and understand what ur friend has to say in case of any misunderstandings or negative feelings...so enjoy this beautiful relationship..u find very few of them in ur life :)